Preparing for Priesthood: A Journey of Faith and Perseverance
New Beginnings: My Ordination Day
The memory of my ordination feels as vivid as if it happened yesterday. My fellow ordinands and I gathered nervously in the cathedral’s undercroft. As the bishop, dean, senior clergy, and vergers arrived, we processed up the stairs to glorious music, entering the chancel. There, in the front pew, sat an old friend from America who’d traveled across the globe to support me. I paused to shake his hand, spotting familiar faces in the crowd—my family beaming with pride.
We ordinands stood around the altar, introduced to the congregation. My name came first—not because I was the most important, I quickly realized, but due to alphabetical order. Soon, I knelt before the bishop for ordination. In that sacred moment, I thought of my mother in heaven, whose early influence had sparked my calling.
Two hours later, we emerged as newly ordained priests, clutching our letters of holy orders and Bibles. Accompanied by our bishop, we stepped into the sunshine, clouds parting as friends and family embraced us. I knew then my ordination was divinely blessed. That night, I thanked God for guiding me this far, while praying for continued strength in the journey ahead. My ministry began the next morning.
Overcoming Ministry Challenges as a New Priest
I was blessed to serve a parish where I’d once lived and worshipped. Many parishioners knew my story and had cheered me on toward ordination. Their support was invaluable, but challenges still loomed.
A wise priest once advised me: “Listen, and listen again before you speak. Be yourself and use common sense.” I struggled with the first part—I loved talking—but over time, I honed my listening skills. Speaking common sense meant ditching theological jargon for clear, encouraging words that resonated during services.
Meeting congregational expectations was tricky. They wanted thoughtful answers to tough questions, and I learned my responses rippled through the parish fast. One trick? I’d ask, “What do you think?” first. It gave me insight into their concerns, letting me tailor my replies.
Then there were the church wardens—dedicated laity who valued tradition. They’d welcome growth and better finances, but only if nothing changed. I saw the need for progress but knew resistance would follow. Treading carefully was key.
Like any job, I couldn’t fix everything. I prioritized worship over buildings, services over finances, and pastoral care over endless meetings. Cooperation, I discovered, was the secret to parish harmony and growth.
Advice for Aspiring Priests: Prayer Is Your Foundation
People often say education is the key to success: “Education, education, education.” For those preparing for priesthood, I say: “Prayer, prayer, prayer.” Ministry is rewarding but demanding—you’ll need God’s guidance every step of the way.
Seek wisdom from seasoned ministers. Ask about their callings (don’t be surprised if they differ from yours), their current commitments, and how ministry impacts their lives. What brings them joy? What disappoints them? Their insights offer balance and perspective.
Be ready for setbacks—rejection or delays may come. Each step won’t automatically lead to the next. But through prayer and honest conversations with loved ones, you’ll find the support to persevere. Remember: you’re not on this journey alone. God runs this race with you.
About Reverend Priestly Brook
The Reverend Priestly Brook, an Anglican priest, retired in August 2012 from the Colne and Villages Team Ministry in East Lancashire. With his bishop’s “Permission to Officiate,” he remains active in ministry. Married to Christine, with six grown children, he’s a sought-after preacher and after-dinner speaker in Northern England.
